To be a parent for most of us if not for all people means to be responsible from a bunch of stuff in your home, including taking care of a totally little ignorant creature, called your child. And because it’s unlearned child you have to do your best to give them all possible care and direct them toward what we think it’s right.
So that’s why some of us take this responsibility so seriously by take training or class or even read a book contented tips and guides on how to raise a child, Therefore, Nobody blame them.
if some of us thinks that raising a child it’s the hardest job in the world, that because sometimes you feel you understand your child properly and you can relate to his or her issues, but other times---- this feeling will completely be failed you, even the simplest behaver your child just showed seems to you unexplainable, you can’t just understand how this creature ---- function. However, you don’t have to worry about that because here in this article will give you quick tips that will help you to raise your child in a healthy way plus, make them fit in any society that they get involved in.
First, your child---- still your child, never fool with the height, they are times when we think, our kids are growing up and became teens that means they no longer need our full guidelines or instructions, they can probably figure out their own stuff, but on the contrary, they still need instructions and guide, particularly in this period, this is according to Sarah Johnson, an assistant professor at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health when she pointed out that why our teens child need more caring and guidelines she explained that the developmental period of teen child which called adolescence lasts about 10 years starting from the age of 11 to the age of 19 and this period when the brain still needs to be directed most and it will influence the rest of their life course.
Second, Be their best friend, you know how your best friends why you are best friends right? Probably because they care about you, and share stuff with you, what’s more--- they just showed up in the right time, when you need them most, plus you never get bored, So why you can’t apply this to your child you, I bet you they will always be open to sharing anything with you, because they trust you as a friend--- and what’s the best friend do to their friend? Give them advice without yell at them, they never feel superior over their friend, and always, always hung out with them.
Third, A huge fan of your child, that’s literally what I mean. People, in general, tend to appreciate and love who support, and encourage them on what they purist, they need to feel encouraged and supported by their loved ones, and that applies to the child in a profound way. If you always support them with their stuff and encourage them to do their best, they will appreciate that and trust you, moreover, they will show you every time how they progressed!
Forth, Learn them to take responsibility, don’t show in every situation that they got into and figure out solution to their issue, you have to let them figure out that by their own, and don’t totally disappear----- be behind the scene and watch how they act, if there is any situation needs your involvement, be in right away and offer the help.